Importance of Mentoring by Elders

When elders hold the hand of a young person for mentoring with their life experience, it is not just an individual who is shaped—a way of thinking, a family, and ultimately society itself finds direction. The lessons learnt over a long journey of life, the struggles witnessed, and the wisdom gained are not ordinary assets. They are a legacy that, when shared, can enrich generations. Yet, in today’s fast-paced world, this priceless wealth often remains unheard and unnoticed.

Today, we repeatedly speak about the erosion of values among the youth. Warmth in relationships is diminishing, patience is declining, and instant success is being seen as the ultimate goal of life. The ability to accept failure is weakening. There may be many reasons for this, but one undeniable truth is that dialogue between generations is steadily reducing. When this dialogue breaks, the natural bridge between experience and energy also weakens. This is where the role of elders becomes crucial.

Elders do not bring just memories with them; they bring living history. They have seen days of scarcity, tasted success achieved slowly, and learnt the art of rising after failure. They know that solutions do not appear overnight and that every night is followed by a morning. When they share these experiences with the young, they do more than motivate—they teach them how to understand life.

In preserving culture and values, elders are the strongest carriers. Culture is not limited to festivals or traditions; it is shaped by empathy, respect for others, and a sense of responsibility towards society. These values are not taught through speeches but through conduct. When a young person observes grandparents or seniors living life with dignity and balance, learning happens silently and deeply.

Technology has given us convenience, but it has reduced human interaction. Online shopping has taken away even casual conversations with shopkeepers. Social media has increased contacts but reduced the depth of relationships. In such times, elders’ ability to build and nurture relationships can be invaluable for the younger generation. They understand that relationships are built through time, trust, and continuous dialogue—not through likes and followers.

There is no substitute for elders when it comes to teaching life skills. Patience, restraint, emotional balance, financial wisdom, and decision-making are born out of experience. Institutions may teach these in theory, but elders teach how to live them. Often, a simple piece of advice rooted in experience can change the course of a life.

Today’s youth is burdened with mental stress, competition, and fear of an uncertain future. Many do not have anyone they can speak to freely. At such times, the calm voice of an elder, the patience to listen without judgement, and gentle guidance become nothing short of healing. Elders do not merely give advice—they give reassurance that life can be lived.

Society must now understand that elders are not a burden but a priceless resource. They should not be seen only as receivers of support, but as contributors of wisdom. Their participation in schools, social platforms, and community institutions should be encouraged.

For elders themselves, mentoring brings renewed meaning. It reassures them that retirement does not mean inactivity. This phase of life can be equally useful and fulfilling. This is the very spirit of Never Say Retired—where experience does not pause, but spreads more light.

By embracing the guidance and experience of elders, we will not only shape the future of the youth, but also lay the foundation of a sensitive, balanced, and strong society. Listening to our elders, respecting them, and giving them opportunities—this alone will truly strengthen our beloved Bharat.